愛一個人並不單純是種強烈的感覺，
it is a decision, it is a judgement, it is a promise.
愛是決定，愛是判斷，愛是承諾。
If love were only a feeling,
如果愛僅僅是種感覺，
there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever.
那就沒有對彼此承諾天長地久的基礎。
A feeling may come and go.
感覺來去無蹤，縹緲虛無。。
How can I judge that it will stay forever,
我怎麼知道愛會長久，
when my act does not involve judgement and decision?
若我的行為不牽涉到判斷與決定？
~ by Erich Fromm.
Happy Valentine!
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